Que Sera, Sera - Whatever Will Be, Will Be

[pearlharbr]

Well, just a warning about following my sitch. I have decided that I am finished with my R so I am no longer DBing for that purpose. I am simply focusing on myself to improve the areas I identified as problems in the R so if/when I decide to date again I will be able to have a better, fulfilling R. If my xBF came to me now and said he was finished with his A and wants to try to work on us I wouldn't take him back.

That said, I believe that other people do have R and M worth saving and that can be saved. So I will never tell you to give up, I just try to offer whatever support I can.

I think that's a great goal to have and something very important to do. And don't worry about thinking in weeks. Taking things one day at a time is all you need to do.