Craig,

You know your sitch better than anyone.

Has treating your wife gently improved your relationship with her?

I only ask because for me a show of what it would be like without me, wasn't all that gentle.

The difference between, "You know I'm not going to be around to help you when we are divorced?"

And the crickets my wife heard whenever she tried to engage me with frivilous BS. Was worlds apart.


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