I sent my L h's note today and he responded within minutes - "We need to get to mediation quickly".
It's going to be in about 3 weeks. They're booked - so many people going through the same damn thing.
But he also said it would be ok to meet with H if I wanted to "see where he's going with this".
I don't know. I set a pretty firm boundary last month when he asked to meet - I do not want to see you anymore if you're still involved with someone else. He's definitely still involved with OW. Would it show inconsistency if I broke it and agreed to meet with him?
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10