It just seems sometimes that progress is so slow that I'm always tempted to try something else.
I remember several people warned me when I first started here that the most important thing you can have when DBing is patience. I wanted my M to be reconciled in days or even hours, but I think it usually takes a while. A year or 2 is a more accurate time frame probably. That's why GALing is so important I think, to make the time pass more quickly and you even wind up having fun and becoming a more happy, self confident person, so whether your M works out or not, you'll be fine. Karen