Que Sera, Sera - Whatever Will Be, Will Be

[lemonsnap]

Thanks, Pearl. I've marked that discussion so I can check in on it every once in a while. I'm going to try to buy the DR book soon (probably once my H moves out) so that I can really study it in detail. I've read DB and try to study this forum as much as I can. You're all such inspiration.

It's great advice to check in on people that have a few months more experience with this than me (like you!) I really appreciate it - it's like having big brothers and sisters to give you advice.

Here's my goal for the next few days.
I'd say a week, but I need to focus on a day at a time right now:

Do not be openly desperate or needy even when you are
hurting more then ever in your whole life and are desperate
and needy.