I know about the situation that he is talking about. Since they were separated for nearly a year, I would say that it wasn't an affair and leave it at that. I know he is hurting and it is normal to look at the other person and say well how is this different?
She liked someone, he used her.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory