I don't pursue him, but DB had me thinking today that I should do something else, a "trial and error" per se and "encourage" H to stay separated, i.e tell him how nice its been to have time to myself etc.
Yes, but I think DB is more about actions vs. words, so instead of telling him how nice or happy you are, show him by GALing, having fun, focusing on yourself, etc. I think that will make more of an impact than any words you tell him. Karen
