To tell the OM's W. Again, if I do, this frees up my W to have him. That is not my goal. I'd rather keep them in fear. Right now, he is avoiding her to try and not get in trouble. She is offering me all kinds of stuff to put in writing I won't say anything. You wouldn't believe what she is offering me. Its unreal. She is trying to play the psychological game of closing the door on us forever if I say something and also offering me sexual favors if I will just put in writing that I won't say anything. Truly amazing.
To me, this is a spectacularly unhealthy way to function. If you are intent on holding the upper hand in divorce proceedings, go for it, because it rocks.
However, if you think you can use it to regain your relationship, then go right now, pick up the phone, and call the OM's W. Right now.
