Counseling isn't going to do an ounce of good while she's seeing other people. It will be a complete waste of time for both of you.
As for her saying that she's only seeing other guys for sexual release, all I can say about that is "mama mia." If my W ever said that to me I think I'd run to get those sep. papers signed and get her out of my house.
Me: 33 WAW/MLC: 33 M: 4+, T: 10+ Separated: Nov 08 A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended) A#2: Feb 09 - ? 1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes 2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t 3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3