Try24no-thanks for the MLC info, I think I will try there. I know my daughter wins. I asked her if maybe some day, I could move back into the house and she told me no, she likes things the way they are. I was a little disappointed that she said that. Even though I'm not trying to get her in the middle, I just don't want her being mislead. the weekends have been great family time, but I was worried she was waiting for us to get back together, but shes not.