Quoting AnitaSues: I know ex probably thinks I am still sleeping with om. when daughter sleeps over I sleep in another room. My sister lives out of state and my parents just took in my grandmother so thats out. The ex has a two family that I was supposed to get from the divorce but I let him have it because I knew he could take care of it and we had wanted to sell the house and use the money for our daughter's college fund. I asked him to let me know if one of his tenants move out to let me know. I didn't get a reaction from him. I could go to a women's shelter but I really don't want my daughter to be exposed to that--she deserves better. I'm still trying to pay the lawyer off from the dirovce 3 yrs ago! I stopped giving the om any money for bills from the house, I am trying to save every penny I can.
here's a thought? how often does your dd spend the night with you? why not stay at a womans shelter and then on the nights that you would be seeing dd ask if she could spend the night at home...if this doesn't work for xh because he wont be home as if you could stay on the couch. explain to him why. the longer you stay in the home of the om the longer you are going to be confused and used...and honestly inmho the faster you get away from him the better and not simply for the possible reconcile with xh but for yourself (I've read enough of your other thread to know that you and I both know he's no good)
