I know ex probably thinks I am still sleeping with om. when daughter sleeps over I sleep in another room. My sister lives out of state and my parents just took in my grandmother so thats out. The ex has a two family that I was supposed to get from the divorce but I let him have it because I knew he could take care of it and we had wanted to sell the house and use the money for our daughter's college fund. I asked him to let me know if one of his tenants move out to let me know. I didn't get a reaction from him. I could go to a women's shelter but I really don't want my daughter to be exposed to that--she deserves better. I'm still trying to pay the lawyer off from the dirovce 3 yrs ago! I stopped giving the om any money for bills from the house, I am trying to save every penny I can.