Sounds like you're really moving to a better mental place... You are very much detached and that will help you make yourself happy.
Just wondering: Do you still see a way back to having feelings for your W, or is that completely over?
For me, I don't preoccupy myself with our sitch very much at all anymore, I know I will be happy again, no matter what happens, but I still have feelings for my W. Was wondering where you are in that regard.