Hi Randy, glad to hear that someone else is in a similar situation. How long have you been divorced? Did you have an affair? When you are together doesn't feel like you are still married? any kids?I'm so glad you read my post and responded, now I have someone to compare notes with. I know I have to get away from the om. I send the ex cards every once in a while. I'm a card person. I send him one of fathers day, x-mas, valentines, birthday and just recently he took my daughter to Poland (he was born there) for 2 weeks and I took care of his dog and the house. I made this huge welcome home sign and left a card on his pillow saying that I really, really missed him and thank him for sharing Poland with our daughter. He has not told me not to send him cards, so I still do. I don't get really mussy-gussy though. No physical, except about 2 years ago I told him I was horny and tried to start something, but he couldn't perform so I haven't since, except when he came home from Poland, I ran into his arms and kissed him. Your right, I feel like I am in a game, when does this game end?
