You have a freaking separation! Send them a copy of that. Send them a copy of his lease or a letter from his parents or whomever he's living with saying he is living there.
GL with counseling.
(((((BIG HUGS)))))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2