Quote: plus I'm still living with om. maybe when I move out after a couple of months I will try it again. Don't flip out, but yes, I am having sex with the om. Even when I say no, there's just something about him and I melt and end up having sex. Plus the ex has alot to work on in the sex department. so for now I have been sleeping with om. I think it was all about the sex for both of us. even if I do stick to my guns and say no he keeps bugging me so I give in! Whats the name of that book?
tsk...tsk...tsk...anita...this is exactly why your xh is totaly justified in being catious or as you call it confused...I would not even attempt at a date or any talk of reconcilliation until you 1. stop having a relationship with om. 2. move out of om's house.
is there not somewhere else you can live? a temporary place to go until you find a place of your own?