Quote: I just feel that I might be wasting me time.
if and a big if at that...his only reason to invite you along on all these "family" things is just for the sake of the "family" then honestly what do you have to lose? I see it as a win win win situation...you win because you get to spend time with dd and her dad...dd wins becuase she gets to see her parents act like adults and get along and enjoy her at the same time...h wins becuase he gets to share his dd with her mother.
I'd tend to doubt that all of this interaction is simply just for those reasons...
I would tend to think that yes since you were the one to leave that it would be up to you to initiate a "date" or a conversation about reconcilliation.
but for now I would actively work on getting out of om's house (even if it's seperate living you're still there), and take things slow with xh.
