I doubt if he is leading you on,remember they don't do anything they don't want to.I know H isn't the WAS but you are going to have to DB him like he was.Has there been anything physical?I do know exactly what you feel like. My X and I have been spending every waking moment together for 6 months but i can't get her past this level.I got a little upset the other night and said something about I don't know how long I can play this game and maybe we should forget it.Well she said this isn't a game and came home to cook supper and hung out.So maybe you get them to the point that now they don't want to leave.She came over at lunch today and ate even though I had to leave.She at least feels comfortable.You will get there but you have to get away from OM.Maybe a letter would help telling him that you made the mistake and you love him that maybe you shouldn't move back in right now but would like to spend some nights there. he will get the idea.Flirt with him,go ater him like you were dateing.Dress up,make moves,ask him out
