A new phase..Future uncertain-imagine that!

[kat727]

I know I haven't read your whole situation but it sounds as if you do try to remain civil when you interact. In my situation, bad days aside, Ex comes before I get home to get them. I do usually see him when he drops them off but I don't usually make eye contact or even small talk. It is just easier this way.

In my case I didn't find this site until he had already filed and it had been about 3 months into that process. I would have had a much better chance if I had discovered this site early on. All of my internet searches were about trying to understand affairs and how they happened, not about stopping a divorce since we weren't at that point. Hope that helps.

kat