I am still considering saying something to STBXW. I agree with your thoughts on this, Karen, ...but the other part of me realizes that if she is really the sort of person who would do such a thing, then me saying something to her about it will have zero effect anyway, right? She would just ignore me.
And if she has not become the sort of person who would do such a thing to her children, indicating she does still have some modicum of compassion in her soul, then my asking her would just give her more cause to accuse me of maligning her.
Like everything else with STBXW these days, I am d*mned either way I go.
