I read the book. He is one of my favorite authors (Nicholas Sparks). BG, the book was a wonderful love story about two people that meet after getting divorced. He also wrote The Notebook, Walk to Remember, Message in a Bottle and many others.
Kel, it was good to hear from you. I know that the OWH is not right. And between OWH & OW, he is the more mentally healthy of the two. Scary, huh? I agree that he would enjoy nothing more than to get back at my H, and when I saw what my H's reaction was to the last phone call to me, I realized that communication was not helping our situation. I also don't think that anything else he may tell me will be of any benefit. It will probably hurt. My eyes are open and I don't sit with my back to the door.
I just got my first appt. set up for the tough therapy this afternoon. Not for a couple of weeks yet. I'll let you know how it is. I'm looking forward to it.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.