Currently detaching from S. Staying as dark as possible.
Here is my question. As we split custody of the kids. I have them Tues/Wed (pick up from her house after work) and every other weekend Friday through Sun. I am having a difficult time getting what I believe to be the "full effect" of going dark out of this.
We obviously see each other frequently. I stay focused on the kids and no R talk. Only discussing financial or kid issues.
No calls or texts during day unless absolutely necessary. How effective do you think this will be?
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Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch