Question,

Currently detaching from S. Staying as dark as possible.

Here is my question. As we split custody of the kids. I have them Tues/Wed (pick up from her house after work) and every other weekend Friday through Sun. I am having a difficult time getting what I believe to be the "full effect" of going dark out of this.

We obviously see each other frequently. I stay focused on the kids and no R talk. Only discussing financial or kid issues.

No calls or texts during day unless absolutely necessary. How effective do you think this will be?

V


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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