AnitaSue,

Welcome to the boards. You're insight into what made you walk away from your H and family for another man, (that apparently isn't all you'd hope he'd be)...would be a great help to the men on this board, whose wives walked away, in thier understanding and coming to terms with some of the thoughts and motivations that you felt justified your leaving your H and daughter.

In turn, they'd be able to offer you their insight as to how they're feeling and what they need to trust their WAW again. And give you tips on how to begin to rebuild trust and a new R with your XH.

Best of luck to you.
T2