He doesn't want to fire her because he feels bad for her because she is supporting two children with one of them being in college. I hate to say it but in a way I do feel badly for her because of all the lies he told her too. I understand that how hard it would be for her to get another job. He still says that the pets, that the girls love so much, must go for him to come home. It seems to me he doesn't want to give, but expects a lot out of me and the girls.
At this time, divorce is seeming to be the only way to resolve things.
Is this crazy or what? You don't have to watch soap operas, just come to my thread!
I think sometimes we all have a little bit of that in our lives here! ((((Yoyo)))))
I have to say I DO NOT feel sorry for the OW. You get involved with a married man you get what you deserve. You have to do what you feel is right, but I think she needs to go. Your M is more important than the OW.
I also think you shouldn't get rid of your pets. We have them and they are like family members. And then what happens after you do get rid of them, and he comes up with some other excuse? I wouldn't do that; that shouldn't be a dealbreaker for him with all the crap you've put up with??? If he can't handle that, then maybe divorce is something you should consider....Sorry for that but just being honest. Karen
