I'm sure you're right. I'm sure she thinks she's making this huge effort and I should just be happy that she's still here. Don't get me wrong. I do see her trying. I really do. But she's trying in a way that gives her what she needs and doesn't take into account ANYTHING I need.
Man, if that doesn't just summarize your sitch in 50 words, I don't now what does. BINGO.