I don't know that she cares much right now about consequences.
Doesn't matter. You lay out the boundaries for YOU, not for HER. You communicate the consequences (or even just that there WILL be some) in order to be fair (so they can't tell you later "I had no idea you were so upset about this!").
Bariga, you tend to shoot down any sort of suggestion that you confront your wife, lay down boundaries, enforce boundaries, or in any way stand up to her. Why are you afraid of her???
