Hi Hope4Us, Thanks for stopping by. Glad you understand. When we moved here it was a completely different culture. Every night is like a weekend, restuarants, malls, movies, bars -- the parking lots are packed. We would go out on the weekend for dinner and maybe catch a movie. My H had his head turned by all the action. First he started playing golf which he then started having a drink here or there occassionally, then with OW she was a party girl always asking him to come to parties to her house she was having (gee where was my invite?) and he did not go till last summer when I was traveling and the PA started up. Think it was EA prior to that for a few months. H started drinking again - heavily and M fell apart after only a few months when A started. OW was like Disneyland for H while I was the boring wife that didn't like to go out all the time. Without family here for support and no accountability - H went crazy. Never saw it coming. I feel like the old shoe. Glad you are making some progress with your M and getting back on track. H never gave me a chance to try and have us work it out. He just shut down and moved out, destroying his relationship with D15. They were so close and she was Daddy's girl. It is shocking. She has not seen him since 12/22 -- her choice. But it still has not softened his heart.
Yoyo, thanks for stopping also and checking in on me. I do have a doctor's appt in about 2 weeks. I never used ADs before and if I can handle it I will, if I can't pull myself out of this funk then I will consider. I am so unfocused at work and need to be since there is only me now. Hate this.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
