Oh, she's good.

Interesting little event last night. W and I were sitting there having dinner. W's cell phone rings and she looks at me and says, "it can wait".

After dinner and for a while longer, she doesn't look at her phone. Probably a couple hours later, she gets up, gets her phone, looks at it, and listens to a voice mail message.

To myself I'm thinking, don't go there. Don't ask. Just ignore it. She knows her phone is a contentious issue with me. She knows I've asked her a few times lately about why her old boss seems to always call her when he's out of town (that's another story), so she knows it bugs me.

But I didn't react. I went downstairs and got some laundry folded and came upstairs and acted like nothing was going on.

Whole night, don't hear a thing about the call. If it was S20, she'd have told me what he wanted. If it was EGF, she'd probably mention it. But nothing.

Then just a bit ago she IM's me and says "oh yeah, that phone call I had last night was for S16. It was a dude from XXXXXX school of Technology. They're having an open house next Saturday. He was calling to invite S16".

So the little fox. Testing to see if I'll trust her getting a call and not telling me what it was about.

Honestly, some times I feel like I'm the one that had the affair!

Ok Ladies, don't go postal on me. I don't have to know what she's doing all the time and everyone she talks to. Not controlling, so don't label me. But after her A, transparency is a good thing to put my mind at ease.

Last edited by Hope4us; 02/19/09 05:41 PM.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.