I understand and I know BG does also. I think I was saying that more for the benefit of others that may read it. My H has to deal with our two diababled children (one of who is in constant terrible pain) and then come home to me with my problems. I can tell it gets him down, but at times I think people kind of get use to it in order to be able to do what they do....if that makes any sense. I know Baby doesn't want him to stay out of pity or anyother reasons except for the "right ones". I think all of us are wanting to help her so much and feel so helpless that I, for one, usually end up saying the wrong thing or something stupid, but I think she knew what I mean, at least I hope so. Thanks for pointing that out.

Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!