I think SHE thinks she is in control and calling the shots. I honestly do not care what she does. I am doing an excellent job of not responding directly to her. All correspondence was forwarded to attorney for action.
Good for you! I wonder how long it will take for your W to realize that she isn't in control??? I've been reading your thread for a while now and agree that NC has been really good for me too. I see H about once a month now, and he actually drops by the house 4 or 5 times a week. NC I think is great for helping us to focus on us rather than the WAS, and to have a more peaceful, normal life despite our spouses kind of being crazy I think. Karen