Am I happy? No, not particularly, but I need to be true to myself. I would be happy if he snapped out of it and came home to work on our M, but like you all said, there are no promises. I would also be happy if I knew for sure that he WOULDN'T snap out of it then I can move on home with my family and start a new life. But feel right now, I am in limbo.
I went through that too. I think you should try to live your life like your H won't be coming back. Make you and your kids as happy as possible. Don't put off anything you want to do b/c your H may come back at some point. I actually do think a good # of WAS will reconsider at some point, and if that happens you can decide what you want to do at that point. Don't worry about that now.
Move if it would be the best for your family, GAL, make yourself happy and don't worry about your H and his MLC behaviors. I'm actually happier now and the past few months than I was in the marriage for years. I'm looking at this as a time to grow stronger, more self confident, happier, healthier and all that. Karen
