Some truths are subjective. So right and wrong are degrees.

Some are absolute, math and internal feelings, being skinny.

For your kids, be the best mom for them, right now you're upset at him for 'hurting' the kids, so you want him to hurt, or you want him around...really? You want him to be an influence on them? No you really don't. Right now they are an excuse for you to have him around. And you're angry at him not only only for hurting you but 'hurting' them.

The kids are currently not going to make him stay, you don't want him around for the wrong reasons. You think you do but you really really don't.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet