HI, moving over from sexual issues. brief recap-me 39 ex-39 1 child-daughter-12, m-14 years, d=3 years
Had affair moved in with OM, three years now. Deeply regret want I have done, told ex how sorry I am. Moving out soon from OM. Me and the ex do everything together. Had fight, says he only does this for daughter's sake. I feel like he wants to get back with me too, but not sure. I could be wasting my time.
For the past three weeks, I have eaten dinner every weekend. All three of us lately go biking together. Last week, after biking, he suggests that we all go to the movies, but daugter doesn't want to see the movie we want to so we don't go. He seems to have my daughter do the inviting. D calles me up asked if I had dinner, I say know and she says that dad wants to know if I would come over for dinner, so I go.
this past weekend, we all went biking at the Cape. If I try to talk about what his intentions are, he gets mad and I don't want to fight, so I droop it. Wed daughter tells me that dad and her are going to the Cape to go biking and that dad said I could come along. I told her that I am pretending that I don't hear this because if dad wants me to go, dad should invite me. Well, Thursday rolls around (I have my d on Tues and Thurs) and ex asks if daughter told me about the Cap, I said yes but that I didn't know how was inviting me, told me I didn't want to intrude on father daughter time and I said I would love to go. I tried explaing that I wanted to know if he wanted me to go or just pleasing daughter by having mom come and he just was like if you want to come be at the house for 7 a.m, sat. So Sat. we all went and had a wonderful time. the bike trail was killing me, all sun, but ex kept checking on me. then we spent the afternoon at the beach. ex dropped me and daughter off then he did more biking then he joined us on the beach. Took us to an awesome seafood restaurant then home. the next day daughter wants to go on another bike ride and I asked where she wanted to go, what time and she says I'll let you talk to dad, ex-says we are biking a 10 ile trail and when I come over bring my dog. Again another beautiful family weekend. He asks me to stay of dinner, but I told him no this time-to much laundry to do so off I went.
Does he want to get back together? Does he still love me and I have a chance? Is this all a cruel joke and when he finds a girl, there goes my weekends with him? Just being nice becasue I am the mother of his child? IM confused!!!
