Exh and I went to one of those 'liberating' (what I call them) counselors. She was recommended by exh's sister who was leaving her marriage. I really look back now and realize what a mistake that choice was. She was definately a man hater and encouraged me to stick my flag in the sand and don't budge on certain things. Yes, exh has issues but she really wasn't pro marriage. She was pro independent women. All fine and dandy for some, but we were looking at that time to save our marriage. I remember she had me fighting with exh about things that should have really been worked through.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!