I think woulda, coulda, shoulda and why did we come here? If, if, if. This move destroyed my M. What I thought would be so good for our family, left us abandoned.
Don't think I've ever posted to you before Hope, but I read this and just wanted you to know that I understand completely how you're feeling.
My W's a started 5 months after we relocated for work. Worst move I ever made. Even though my W claims this was coming for a long time, I don't believe it. I firmly believe the stress of the move/new job she hates, etc created the environment for it to happen. My traveling for work a lot didn't help either, but I strongly believe the move, coupled with a pre-mentapausal W created the perfect storm.
Enough about my sitch. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Can't change the past. But it will get better.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
