I know what to do. Just need the support.

[Still Waters]

"If our marriage ends this way -- with you having an affair, lying about it, and refusing to work whatsoever on our marriage and our issues -- then I have absolutely ZERO INTEREST in being your friend once we're divorced. I'll be civil, and courteous, and we'll work together as good co-parents for the sake of the kids, but I have NO interest in being your friend, much less your BEST friend."

I feel like I've somehow channeled the spirit of Puppy, because I said something almost exactly like this to my wife last week and it stunned her too. Just shows you how delusional and scrambled some of these WAS are. They have an affair, they leave you, they lie to you and deceive you, they refuse to even try to work on the marriage, and yet they expect you to be okay with everything and be their bestest buddy for life.