Ok..am I forgiven..S23 told me MIL was still poorly and going into hospital next week. W has NOT told me. So I sent her a txt asking why I hadn't been informed because I still care and am there to help if needed.
Got a reply..immediatley... "Thanks for that , she is not too bad, she is going for more tests that's all. Thanks again for txt. Take Care x."
No more from me and I will now keep in touch with MIL direct.