Hey Hope,

you sound really good and i'm glad the acceptance thing is working for you. Someone told me yesterday that maybe this is exactly what I've needed to get back to me. This whole f'd up mess in my house and the crap hitting the fan and the aftermath. I will tell you that the aftermath has been such a growing and healing time for me even though I feel it has in many ways been the hardest part of the whole thing. That is what you are going through now my friend. Keep your eyes open, I know you disagree with me about OWH and I wasn't implying YOU will do anything but his state of mind is not right and it would be the ultimate payback to your H if he could sway you. Or even make your H think he has. So just exercise great caution with that whole part of it. Nothing worth doing or having comes easily and that is something we should remember. And everything we survive makes us stronger even if we don't like it. So any news on the touch therapy thing?

Nights in Rodanthe is coming today from Netflix. I just love those sort of movies and keep seeing the previews for it so I'm excited about it. Wierd and changing times my friend. But we will all survive and hopefully do it smiling. Hugs.


If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.