Her H actually likes the arrangements as it is. It suits him. I don't think he does want to go back if he can keep things as they are. Two women wanting him - what an ego boost....and for all this time he has managed to juggle it and lead this double life without his W going for half his business.
Going for a financial settlement IMO is the only way to make him decide one way or another.....and then of course there is what Yoyo wants.........
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength