Hi Yoyo, Agree with whatdidIdo.
I think of next year when both DD are out of the house and if H is still in the "far country".

I worry that you will still be limbo -- waiting waiting waiting. I understand this because my biggest fear is I only have 2 years left when D15 goes off to college. Will I be rambling around my house -- alone. I know it must be a concern for you. YOu know how much time we fill with our D's activities and sports. I thank God every day for that but those days will soon end. We need to find our place again.

You know we will support you in whatever you decide. Take care. Hugs.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09