Deal with what? I know it's hard but stop worrying about her and what she does...It took me a loooooog time to figure that out. Right now the ONLY thing you can do is work on bettering yourself FOR yourself.

If it was me I'd probably still say goodbye just don't worry about the response.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."