I exposed the affair to friends, family, and my husband(and ow's) workplace. It did not work to end the affair. However, it did free me although I constantly at the time second guessed it. My husband moved out the following week so at the very least the affair did not continue under my roof. I was able to have a support system, and people stopped wondering if I had lost my mind or was dying.
Almost a year later, the affair is over, maybe. It died its own natural death.
I believe that exposure is the way to go if you have the guts for it, but it isnt an easy path and it may not turn out in your favour, that being said sitting around watching the affair happen isnt going to do you much good either.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009