Results? My kids both THANKED me for telling them the truth. My S16 already KNEW what was going on, but felt like he couldn't tell me because what if he was wrong? How do you think that made HIM feel? And S16's conversation with W that day was the final nail in the A coffin.
My D-then-18 knew as well, H4U, and was afraid to come to me. She'd been living with this inside her (she'd actually SEEN the two of them together, while she was with her best friend) for several weeks, and she is my sensitive one. I felt terrible for her! D-then-20 also suspected, and her and her sister had been talking and texting about it for a couple of weeks, but they were afraid to come to me b/c they didn't want to see me devastated.
I agree with everything you've said, H4U, for the reasons you've stated.
