I think that push is coming. She keeps pushing to buy a new car and so far I've avoided the conversation because it will be the big R talk. And I've not wanted to go there since we seem to be making progress.
But it's coming. Probably sooner rather than later. When we have that conversation I'm going to tell her that I'm not in favor of buying a new car because I don't know if we'll be together in 6 months and I'm not going into more debt when I don't know what OUR future holds. And with one son in college and one starting college in a year and a half, I just don't think its wise to go into more debt when we don't know what our financial situation will be like. I'll also get into OM moving back to the area and how I WILL NOT accept her and OM working in the same location and if she wants to stay, no problem, but I'm not going to stay here. Then it's up to her.
Thanks for checking up on me. I really appreciate it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.