It just happened that I started reading your thread and getting to your last post, WOW, what great news!!!
Good for you guys, good for your kids too... I was talking to my C the other day and told her I am worried how can a M survive with all the baggage from the S, PA/EA etc etc. She said, if you really want to reconcile, you leave the baggage behind, there is no other way...
It will be hard. But there many people on here that have done it. And I have read that there are a couple of books avialable that will help you get over the PA. Good Luck!! K
