This last week has been so eventful. To paraphrase, H confessed to everything this weekend. Confirmed EA/PA, asked to move home, ended A in front of me, and confessed to MC. All of his stuff is already home, and we are working on moving through the effects of the A.

I'm so happy about how things are going, but now find myself suddenly dealing with the feelings associated with confirming the PA. I suspected for a long time, but to hear it from H's mouth is a different story. H has agreed to NC and transparency. I know that we are going to be fine, but I continue to have these moments of fear, anger, and pain. I don't think I was prepared for that.


Me:33 H:32
T:16 M:10
S:5 D:3
bomb: 10-27-08
OW confirmed 12-28-08
EA/PA over 2-15-09

First thread: http://tinyurl.com/d7mrpq
Second thread: http://tinyurl.com/dmjtp8