Mel, Thanks for the reminder.

I really needed it. I've learned patience I never knew I had. It's almost 2 years since I first became concerned with her "friend". And from what she told me about her "friend", it worried me all the more. It's been 11 months since she told me she's gone NC with OM. I don't believe she hasn't talked to him since that time, but I do see great progress in the last 5 months or so. And even though I've learned patience I never knew I had, it's wearing thin.

To not get anything I need to heal from this makes it all that much harder. And after a good weekend like we had last weekend, and then the fun planned for this weekend, it's hard not to expect more.

I appreciate the little 2x4. I definitely needed it. I just hope my expectations don't get the best of me.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.