Ah, Pup--what if you do tell the church--and they promote him to a place of leadership in spite of knowing he's actively and willingly committing adultery and throwing his family under the bus?
Well doesn't that tell you something about your church's values?
Change church.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength