Got a (what I think is) a divorce petition in the post yesterday with some court thing on it. Really don't understand it and need to ring my sols today as says I need to respond in 7 days. However, I asked STBX about it when dropping of the boys and she was like 'I've no idea, my sols does not return my calls and I'm changing sols !'. So I have no idea what all this means.
Will ring sols and ask their advice.
STBX is friendlier to me now, even showed me where I'm taking the boys on holiday in a brochure (I hadn't looked as my sister and friends were already going so I just tagged along knowing it would be fine) and it looks pretty cool.
Also, was chatting to a guy I know from work and footy last night and he has a spare room in the flat he rents. I'm going to see it and have a chat with him next week and will go for it if he is ok about boys etc, but as a policeman that does shifts, I think I may be able to have them over around his work....
