However, if I were the one having the affair, and I were exposed, and humiliated, I would never go back to the marriage.
With the greatest of respect sgctxok, unless you were in this position I don't think you really KNOW what you would do. One of the big things you see on these boards is people saying that they had always said if their S cheated they would be gone.....and yet when it happened they have arrived here wanting to save the M. Until it happens one never knows.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
